To get your ex-boyfriend back, you just have to become more attractive.
The only reason he broke up with you was because you were no longer attractive to him.
He was no longer attracted to you because of circumstances surrounding the relationship or the break-up.
There may be a myriad of reasons why the break up occurred or there may be just one.
In any case, it is your duty to find out what these reasons are before you can ever hope to reconcile with your ex boyfriend.
Since he is the one who dumped you, then it would mean that something was not quite right in the relationship.
This "something" might have been brewing for quite a while but only manifested itself with the break up.
That however, is another issue.
You have to become attractive to your ex-boyfriend somehow, some way and I am going to help you to do that.
There are a few types of attraction that must be there in order for you to ever get your ex back and have any hopes for a happy long term relationship.
Physical attraction is of course important but a whole lot more is needed.
Above and beyond the physical, there must be something else that will draw him back to you and this is where the other types of attraction come in.
The other types of attraction are: Intellectual attraction: You being able to stimulate his mind in a way that you have never done before and in a way that it has never been stimulated before.
This type of attraction will manifest, for example, in you two being able to talk to each other for hours about a particular subject that interests both you and him.
Emotional attraction: This is the type of attraction that is the beginning of affection.
You cannot explain why you like being in his presence and he cannot explain why he likes being in yours but the fact of the matter is, he just really likes being in your presence or talking to you and that is exactly what you want.
Spiritual attraction: This has nothing at all to do with religious compatibility but in fact the way that you two see life and the values that you two place on life and your purpose here.
In essence, what I am saying to you is this: you have to become attractive to your ex-boyfriend in a way that goes far beyond the physical.
This is of course something that is within you but you have to really want it in order to make it happen.
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