Breakups can be really hard.
Seeing that other person who was once part of your everyday routine is hard.
When you have developed a sense of familiarity with a person, it is hard to break it off.
One can become torn with his or her feelings.
You can become confused on whether to get back with an ex or not.
Here are some insights on your questions about getting back with an ex partner: What did you fight about? Was it because of his excessive drinking habits? Was it because of her excessive partying and social life? Was it because he forgot to buy you a present for your birthday? Was it because she is not a fan of your sport? Gauge the level of the problem and see if it is fixable.
If it is, then maybe give it a try, if not then leave it.
Can you live with him/her? Can you endure your ex's wacky behavior? If so, then give it a try.
If you go nuts and can't comprehend the way he or she handles things then maybe it is wise to let the relationship be.
Does he/she respect you? In a relationship, it is important that you have respect for each other.
If the answer to this is yes, then maybe reconsider getting back.
If the answer is no, then, your relationship is only bound to fail.
Respect is important in any relationship.
Does he or she have the same beliefs as you? It is important to have almost the same views on important things.
When you enter a relationship with someone who is completely your opposite it would be a difficult thing to manage.
Both of you will need extra efforts understanding each other.
Does he or she get along with your family and friends? Family and friends' opinions are very important.
This is because when you are in love, you become too blinded and see only what you want to see.
It is important that he or she is okay in the eyes of your family and friends.
Does he/she want to get back with you? Of course it is important to know if he or she shares those same feelings of getting back together.
It should be a mutual affection.
Can you live without him or her? Do you imagine yourself dating him or her? Can you imagine yourself being beside him or her during the most important occasions in your life? Can you imagine him or her in your future? Do you love him or her and desperately want him or her back? If the answer is yes to all of these, then go ahead and get back together.