Although things may seem impossible after the breakup, the actual steps involved to get your boyfriend back are fairly straightforward.
But in order to do this, you're going to have to change the way you approach the situation and how you react to him.
Many of the steps may seem unorthodox and may go against your instinct, but they have been proven to work if you follow a plan.
Forget about everything for a second and keep this one thing in mind: There's no way you're going to be able to force him to do anything he doesn't want to do.
In fact, the more you try to push him towards what you want, the worse it's going to be.
This is basic human nature and people will always resist if they feel they are being pushed.
Keep it up, and you may cause serious and permanent damage to your relationship.
Instead, do a complete 180 degrees and start doing your own thing.
Give your boyfriend tons of space and take your focus off him temporarily.
That's not to say you can't be friendly - in fact, you want to be as friendly as possible.
Using reverse psychology, you'll want to charm him back into wanting you.
And that's the key.
So get started now and make a promise to yourself not to call him and simply start treating him like any other friend.
Avoid any talk of intimacy and get out there and show him what he's missing.
Interest, followed by attraction, and then desire - this is what you want to accomplish.