How to win back a lost love can be difficult if both of you have broken up on a bad note or if there had been more negatives during the time of the breakup.
You could have even gone insane trying to find out whether there has been a third party within the relationship.
Or you have been through drunk dialing or even dialing your ex like ten to twenty times a day.
Before trying to win back a lost love, one thing important is that people around can always help.
Your family, shared friends all can help in bringing the both of you back together.
I have seen couples come back within not months but DAYS because of help from close friends that were encouraging and helped push both sides together.
Find out all the real reasons why both of you left the relationship.
Was it because of the negatives in the relationship? What positives were there in the relationship? Did both of you like the same things? Like movies, going out together and enjoy scenery or a particular activity that both of you enjoy? Don't underestimate shared beliefs between the both of you, like beliefs about religion and about family.
All these can help put light on what is truly positive about the relationship and help you to win back a lost love.
For the date that you want to bring your lost love out, do something very simple and short so that both of you do not concentrate on any of the negatives.
Put your best foot forward during the short date.
I have also found out that on how to win back a lost love, it was not hate that I was fighting with, but indifference.
Slowly, as time passed, I found that my partner slowly didn't care about me or I simply left my love's life slowly.
This was not good for me on how to win back a lost love.
There are even more techniques for how to plan the first date or even what to do with refusal.
All these can be found in the links below.