Ouch! You were just dumped and you no matter what you try, your ex still clouds your every thought.
What are they doing right now? Who are they with? The endless questions, which only drive us inwardly insane! Let us face it, breakups truly suck! You want to get your ex back.
I will state that is very much possible to win your ex back while rekindling the old flame however, you must first be in control of your emotions as well as perform your strategy with a clear head.
Yes, you need a strategy but before you read about what you should be doing in getting your ex back, here are some mistakes you should never make when attempting to win back the love of your life.
Slow down on the alcohol Alcohol can make anyone do crazy things.
Here are the main reasons you should avoid alcohol during this process.
Your ex will not be impressed with late night "drunk calls".
When you are drunk, you are suffering what is called an altered mental status therefore allowing your ex to understand that not anything, which you are stating to them, can be taken seriously.
This might also cause your ex to become disgusted by your behavior, which might be perceived as weak as well as juvenile.
Do not go on a binge-eating spree Some people turn to food for comfort.
Turning to food for comfort is one of the reasons people have weight problems.
You do not want to jeopardize your physical appearance.
Instead of binge eating, go for a walk or some type of exercise.
This is much better for you and exercise will only prove beneficial for the future, no matter if you win your ex back or not.
Yes, the famous "no contact" rule You have to allow time for yourself to construct your strategy in getting your ex back.
It is very important that you do not contact your ex.
Besides, time does indeed heal and you want to allow your ex time to miss you.
If you are always around or contacting them, how can they miss you? Do not publicly humiliate your ex This is more times to none performed in anger.
Ensure that you think about performing revenge wisely.
Many people have performed revengeful acts only to regret what they have performed and therefore ruining any chance of getting their exes back.
Keep your emotions and temper in check.
If you view your ex in a club with their friends or even on a date, just remain calm.
If you cannot handle the sight of your ex with someone else, you must quietly leave the establishment and go about your life.
No one ever said this is an easy process.
The process of attempting to get your ex back can prove most difficult as well as depressing.
You must be able to recognize if there is any hope of achieving reconciliation.
You must also be mature enough to walk away if all hope is gone therefore allowing yourself to go on with your life while healing through this difficult time in your life.