Relationships can be wonderful - until someone decides to end it all for whatever possible reason, that is.
Since women are more emotional that men, though, they are usually the ones who take the blow pretty hard, especially if they were the ones who got left behind.
If you're one those women who have been badly hurt from a breakup and you want to win your ex boyfriend through text, these tips could help you: 1.
Avoid constantly texting him.
No guy will take you back if you reek of desperation.
With that said, keep the texting to a minimum and fight off the urge to text him every hour.
If you appear too eager, he will quickly run out of your life.
Text him once and if he replies, great! It might take him some time for him to text back, though, so be patient.
2.
Don't plead, don't beg.
Yes, you want to win your ex boyfriend back through text, but this doesn't mean you should blatantly tell him that.
You won't win him back by being mushy or clingy through text - remember that.
He might just end up pitying you for looking so sad and pathetic.
You wouldn't want that, now, would you? 3.
Use your time alone wisely.
Now that you're officially single again, you have more time to take care of yourself.
You can have your hair done, read books you never got to read, or do things that you put off because you couldn't do them when you were in a relationship.
This is also the time to reflect on your past relationship.
Was it healthy? What were the good and bad things about it? Once you know the answers to these questions, you will have enough leverage to talk to your ex boyfriend about them in the future.
Now, if your ex boyfriend is already in a new relationship with someone else, things will be a lot different.
You can tell yourself that you're fine and that you can handle it, but you know you're not and you know you can't.
You will be okay eventually, but it will take time.
Also, no matter how much you try to win your ex boyfriend back through text, you have to accept the possibility of your plan failing.
Before pushing through with all this, you have to be sure that he is worth the pain and effort.