When your ex lover initiates intimacy you might be tempted to go along with it.
Don't walk that territory just yet.
Sex with your ex to win him back is the wrong approach.
If you are indifferent to the ultimate outcome and you just crave the physical interaction because Mr.
Perfect has not come along yet...
go for it.
If you think that your ex is just following his strategy to catch you, and return you to your vulnerable position where you can get hurt again, than do not fall for his charms.
If your emotional attachment is still there than do not fall for his plan, not even if you are convinced that you can seduce him and make him think different about you.
Sex with your ex to win him back is a strategy that never works.
Emotional attachment is a reason not to have sex with your ex to win him back.
The same can be said about pressure.
Do not have sex with if he tries to pressure you.
Sex with your ex to win him back does not work, but if there are no strings attached and you both just want physical interaction and sex without commitment, go for it.
To have sex with your ex to win him back is a grave mistake.
You are most likely going to ruin your chances to ever getting him back if you go that road.
If you hope to get love and respect, you should avoid the physical interaction for just now.
Sexual interaction where commitment is not involved never leads to that commitment.
The idea is to make him realize that sex alone is not a relationship.
He needs to come to terms with the fact that you want a real relationship with a loving partner and you will not settle for less.
He will have to come to the decision that the love of his life is not going to be someone who is there just to please his physical and intimate needs.
He needs to fall in love again and rediscover the real you, the person he was attracted to in more ways than just sexually.
If you are not sure that your ex sees you the way you want him to see you, do not hit the sack yet.
Make him wait for your physical interaction.
If he waits patiently for the time to come that you are ready to have sex with him again, he may have changed and be in it for a real and loving relationship.
If he cheats on you because he just wants sex and you were his choice because you appeared to be available, dump him.
You are worth more than that.