Are you thinking 'How on earth can I get someone back when they won't even talk to me?' You are not alone! The most important phase is the post break up communication phase.
Most people fail miserably here!!This article will help you learn how to get back someone you love.
If you really want to get someone back and for the right reasons, you firstly need to give the person some space.
Trying to rush in too soon after a break up does not bode well for your make up phase.
Your partner will need time to think about things and to reassess the relationship.
During this time, you need to evaluate how you feel as well.
Think about what went wrong in your relationship and admit to any mistakes that you have made.
If the break up was due to something you did, you need to forgive yourself first before she can forgive you.
This will play a big part in the healing process of your relationship.
If you can solve any of the problems then do so.
After you have given your partner some time, try and get in touch with them in a very casual way.
Phone calls are a difficult tactic as it can be seen as being desperate and by no means leave any desperate sounding messages.
Try something short and sweet like 'Hi, it's Jay.
Just calling to see how you are.
Hope you are well.
Bye' This will make her feel like you care but does not make it seem as though you are desperate to get back together.
What more it will make them curious.
The most successful tactics manipulate human psychology and appeal to human traits.