Stop All The Calls, Texts, Contact: You have been attempting to contact your ex way too much! If you want her to reverse yher decision, you must stop all the bothering and irritating.
If you have plans to get your ex back, you must stop all this immediately.
Your ex does not want to speak to you right now.
She needs the time and space to rethink and reconsider the situation.
If you give her time, she will be able to experience the pain of not having you around anymore.
Improve Your Own Attitude: Instead of berating your ex and wondering why things are not working out for you.
Take the time to focus on your own problems and character flaws.
You must take full responsibility for your actions and words, and start with yourself first.
You must stop acting selfishly, rude, blaming, argumentative, frustrated, hopeless.
Any of these emotions ultimately come from your choice to express them.
If you would take the time to be conscious of your thoughts and feelings, you would be more careful in your response in each situation.
Do Something New In Your Life: Start a new hobby, interest or sport.
Something that will enable you to learn something new and get a fresh new perspective on life.
Right now it is important for you to resharpen your image, renew your sense of meaning and confidence.
You can do this in an effective way by taking up something new and exciting.
Approach Her With Your New Self: Now that you've given her some distance and done some self-improvement work you are ready to give her a taste of your improved self.
Arrange to meet her somewhere casual, but don't be imposing.
Be as calm and collected as you can be.
Don't try hard to make any advances.
Keep A Distance From Her: Don't make the same mistakes as you did before.
Stay distanced from her and allow her to slowly approach you, and start thinking of you and making the contact.
Stay Kind And Understanding: No matter what, don't be selfish.
Don't think about yourself in any event.
Be kind and respectful of her wishes and feelings and support whatever she chooses no matter what.