Since the break up, you have been totally devastated and feel that it is impossible that you and the person you love will ever get back together again.
You are absolutely convinced that only a miracle can reunite you.
However, if you just take some time to read the good advice in this article, you will realize that you definitely don't need a miracle to get your ex back.
The trick now is to take things one step at a time.
The first place to start is with you.
You are angry, hurting like crazy, as well as in the awful position of loving and hating your ex at the same time.
There is no way that you will be able to make any effort to get your ex back in a rational way.
Your emotions need to cool down a lot, and the only way this is going to happen is if you give them time to do so.
You must also realize that your ex is feeling precisely the same way you are and also needs time to figure things out.
So, the best solution to this problem is to stay entirely away from each other for a while.
Resist any temptation to call, email, or send text messages to your ex until you are feeling your old self again, and you have every chance to get your ex back.
Another good way to help yourself get over the break up and the bad feelings it caused inside you is to make sure that you are not alone, but with positive, happy people as much as possible.
Do this, and it won't be long before you wake up ready to face the day happily, instead of sitting around moping.
Being in this positive frame of mind will also help you to think about issues that cause arguments between you and your ex, and ways to solve them.
In a short while you will be very encouraged to talk to your ex, because you know exactly what you need to do to avoid conflict.
By this time, your ex will also be over the break up and ready to talk to you.
Because you have taken the time to get over the break up, you have greatly increased your chances to get your ex back.