Figure out why Try to determine what the problem was.
Why did she dump you? Is it something you did? Something she did? Is there someone else? Does she think there's someone else? Once you figure out why this is happening, you can move forward and try to save the relationship.
Ask for forgiveness If it was your fault, now is the time to go to her and ask her for her forgiveness.
Apologize for what you've done, explain to her that it will never happen again and hope she takes you back.
Sometimes all it takes is her knowing that you accept what you've done and you're truly sorry for it.
Forgive and forget If it was her fault, you have to be willing to accept her apology and not hold it over her head for the rest of her life.
If she apologizes to you, accept it, and then let it go.
If you hold on to your bitterness about whatever it is she did, you'll find yourself in the same position again in a few months.
So, when she confesses whatever she did, leave it in the past and move on.
Communication Communication is the key in a situation like this.
Now that everything is out in the open, both of you will need to discuss about how you feel about it.
This is the perfect time to get everything out, because if you don't, these things will linger and eventually become a problem for you again later down the line.
So, deal with it now.
Talk to the professionals There is nothing wrong with looking towards some professional help for the situation.
Sometimes saving a relationship is more than the two of you can handle, so calling in a counselor or therapist can help sort through things and work it out.
There are many other couples who have been exactly where you are, and counselors have been able to help them.
Why not you? Understand how she feels You have to keep in mind that breaking up with you was a last resort, not her first choice.
There is something she felt as though she needed to do, and it probably hurt her to do it.
Understand that while you're feeling hurt, she is also dealing with things as well.
Give her time to decide Whether or not you're trying to her back, you have to give her time to figure out what she wants to do.
You can tell her what you'd like to do, how you feel about it and what you're willing to do to make it happen, but ultimately it's up to her to decide.
Don't push her, and give her time figure out what she wants.