Do you really want to get back at your ex? This is what many folks feel after a breakup.
You feel betrayed, emotional, and stressed.
So is this the time to think about how to get back at your ex? In any case, many folks who think that way at first, deep down want to get back with their ex.
They are just reacting to a highly emotional event.
It so happens that there are several ways to get back at your ex.
Now whether you'll feel better for it is another matter.
But interestingly these ways are also excellent tactics for getting your ex back! In other words, if you use them you could be in a win - win situation.
Here are 4 ways to get back at your ex, or, 4 ways to help get your ex back...
1.
Start socializing once more.
Meet with your friends and make new ones.
I'm not talking about dating, just general socializing.
Have fun! This will help you through the upset and also let your ex see just what they have lost.
2.
Minimize or stop contact with your ex for a period, say a couple of months.
This will give them time to reflect on what they once had and what they are now missing.
It also shows them that you are quite capable of getting along without them.
This in itself could make you attractive to them again.
3.
Don't come across as unreasonable, by demanding they move out and shift their belongings etc.
Instead, show that you are calm, in control of your emotions, and very reasonable.
This assured, reasonable side of you will resonate with them and make it easier to open up lines of communications with them in the future.
4.
Remember what it was that attracted your ex to you in the first place.
Keep those, but get rid of any bad habits and behaviours you've since picked up.
This could also inspire them to want to get back with the new you.
As was said previously, oftentimes a person who wants to get back at an ex because they feel angry and hurt feels that way because they still love them.
If this is you, then these tips could help you get your ex back.
But if you really do want them back, you'll need more than just these tactics.
You'll need a plan of action and a knowledge of just how to respond to any given situation; otherwise things can go horribly wrong.