Have you given up all hope of ever getting back together with your ex again? Why? You only feel this way because of that major argument you had.
Do you still love your ex, and does your ex still love you? If your answer is yes, then you really don't have a problem.
When my boyfriend and I broke up for a while, I also felt like you do.
For a few days, I was so mad with him that I didn't want to see him at all, let alone talk to him.
He behaved like a jerk - why would I want someone like that in my life? The only thing is though, once I was over all the hurt and anger of the break up, I realized that I DID still love him, and I wanted him back in my life - badly! Another thing that I realized is that if I felt like this, then my boyfriend HAD to be feeling the same way.
I put two and two together and came up with a very logical answer.
It took me a while to get over the way I felt after the break up, so he would also need some time to get over all the bad feelings he had inside him.
Guess what? It worked! Do you still doubt what I'm telling you? Well, read on - it'll change your mind immediately! The argument that caused the break up seemed so stupid after we had the time to think it over, that we couldn't wait to see each other as soon as possible.
Of course we were a little awkward with each other at first, but this feeling soon disappeared, and I'm very happy to say that we've been together ever since.
The point I'm trying to make here is that you will succeed, and you will get your lover back.
You just need to do things really slowly right now.
As I mentioned, I went through the same thing that you're going through right now, and staying away from each other is the very thing brought us back together again.
When you DO get your lover back - and it's going to be soon, I promise you, make sure that you talk about the problems that caused you to break up.
Fix them together, and, just like my boyfriend and I, you'll be together for a long time.