Desperate times always lead to desperate measures.
You're desperate to get your ex back, but yet they keep ignoring you or don't seem bothered about the whole break up.
It's just you picking up all of the pieces.
You constantly contact them pleading and apologizing but did you know that this will only push them further away from you? If you want to get your ex back make sure you don't make these common mistakes: 1.
Whatever you do - Do NOT call them! No matter how much you want to get your ex back, do NOT contact them.
You're both hurt after the breakup and contacting them too soon could ruin your chances altogether of getting your ex back.
They don't want to see you right now let alone talk to you, so you just have to live with it and respect their decision.
2.
Make your ex jealous - Don't do it, period! Another mistake which usually ends up backfiring is making your ex jealous.
You feel that making them jealous will make them want you even more, but the fact is, you're only pushing them further away from you.
3.
Don't complain about your ex! Saying bad things about your ex won't make things better will it? If you're saying bad things to your friends, it just leaves the door open to your comments going back to your ex.
Your ex will not take it kindly I can assure you! It's important that you try and keep your feelings to yourself.
If you're forever sharing them, especially to mutual friends, it can make the situation even worse.
If you want to get your ex back, you need to make sure that you avoid these three common mistakes.
Give them the space that they desperately need and you never know, you could be back together in no time at all!