If you have been yakking away to a blank wall of silence in the form of your ex, in a desperate bid to win his/her love back then you will only end up losing him/her forever.
Instead, shut up and take suitable action to get your ex back instantly.
Give your ex back his/her peace of mind.
Back off for a little while so that your ex can breathe in a sigh of relief.
Do not attempt to communicate with your ex for a couple of weeks while you too introspect into the past so as to come up with sensible solutions for the future.
Your ex too could start missing hearing your voice after the first week.
Give your ex's eyes some visual stimulus.
You should also visit the past to find out as to what made your ex fall in love with you when he/she first met you.
Try to dress up in the same style or change over to the same hairstyle that your ex loved you in.
This visual stimulus package will take your ex right into the past and make him/her realize as to what he/she could miss if he/she did not get back together with you again.
Contact your ex's family.
If your relationship with your ex's family had been extremely strong in the past then get in touch with them.
Your ex could have avoided listening to you but would certainly have to hear out the views of his/her own family.
If your ex's family is convinced that both of you need to get back together again then their presence and pressure will compel your ex to do a rethink on the breakup.
Say sorry in an innovative way.
If you need to apologize to your ex then a teary meeting could be dreaded by both you and your ex.
Instead, take an unusual route to say sorry to your ex.
You could take along a couple of musicians along with you at your ex's doorstep and belt out a romantic song.
You could also hire a small plane to fly a banner proclaiming that you are sorry while asking your ex to peep out of his/her window.
Your ex could be suitably impressed at your imaginative manner of apologizing and will welcome you with open arms into his/her life again.
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