It's normal for a relationship to have its rocky moments, but if you find yourself screaming, "Fix my relationship!" then you might benefit from these steps to save your relationship and bring the love back between you.
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Commit to Fixing Your Relationship The first step absolutely has to be truly committing to getting your love back.
Once you've come up with reasons why it deserves to be saved, then you both have to agree to do anything and everything to make it work.
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Find the Root Cause of Your Problems Don't make the mistake of thinking a symptom of your issues is the issue itself.
If your partner had an affair, for example, that's not the real problem you need to deal with.
The deeper cause might be an intimacy or reciprocal trust issue.
You can't just deal with the symptom alone because it can come back if you don't take care of it at the root.
Go in search of the core problem in order to save the love between you.
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Communicate Openly Sit down and really talk about the issues identified.
Articulate all your thoughts and feelings and then let your partner share with you as well.
Don't take offense to anything.
The more open and honest the better.
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Make a Plan Together Talk through every detail when you come up with a plan together.
The more comprehensive your list and the more concrete the steps of your plan are, the better.
It's surprising how much of an impact even the simplest idea can have, so anything you can think of can help.
The most important thing is that you follow through with your plan.
Simply working together will work wonders for your relationship.
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Be Realistic About Your Progress Repairing a relationship takes time and patience.
It's normal to take a step backwards before you move forward.
Keep a positive attitude and motivate each other through the process.