If you've recently broken up or had a fight with your girlfriend then you'll probably think it's important to get back in touch with her to work things out again.
That may be easier said than done, especially if she refused to return any of your calls or messages.
Fortunately this type of relationship advice is one of the easiest to solve so this article will go over some of the ways you can get her to call you back.
But first let's look at one of the main reasons why your girlfriend won't call you back.
Whether it was you or her that initiated the relationship breakup often women tend to need space and time to think about things more clearly and while she is still upset she can't do it.
That means if you keep calling her or not giving her time to breathe it will only prolong the time it takes to get back in contact.
So your first step is to give her some time.
At least a few weeks where you don't have any contact all so that she can think about things with a clear head without emotions getting in the way.
Once you've given it a few weeks then you can call her again, but you need to make your tone and the reason for your call cheery and casual.
You can't act angry with her or demanding otherwise she'll get scared.
A good reason to call is just to call and say that you saw something that reminded you of her and that you thought she might be interested, for example.
Say she is into art, you could let her know that you saw a poster for a new art exhibition that you thought she might be interested in or something.
Just keep it casual and don't expect anything in return, i.
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don't say 'call me back' or anything.
Just a quick 'Hi, I was thinking about you because I saw a poster for the new art exhibition, anyway hope you are doing well, catch ya! Paul'.
This sort of conversation is non-threatening and cheery and so she is more likely to call back to say thanks.
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