It is not a trifling to get your ex-girlfriend back. This is because it is easier to make someone feel for you rather than transform her feelings for you. However, where there is a will there is a way. If you take the right and wise steps, you can win your girl back. Here are some tips that can help you get your beloved and return to you your lost joys.

First of all, you need to remember that you should not approach her and ask her to come back. If you do, she will simply turn you down. So the better idea is to make her come after you. You need to show interest in her but not explicitly. If she calls or messages you, you should reply. But you need to show her that your happiness is not entirely dependent on her.

You have to go out and have fun practically so that your girlfriend knows that you are happy without her. It will also help you forget her for a while and also prove to her that she did not mean the world to you. This will bother her and make her contact you.

If you find her dating some one else, you must not feel jealous or at least do not let it apparent to her. She may go out with your friend, but you need to remember that she is not yours anymore and have the freedom to choose anyone she likes.

If you shout at her or pick a fight, you will not be able to get her back but push her away from you. In this case, you need to display patience.

If you have had a serious relationship with your girlfriend, these tips will surely help get her back to you. If not, then it is not sensible to waste your time over her since no matter what you do, she may turn you down again after some time. As the saying goes, "if you love someone set him free, if he comes back to you he is yours to be." So you need to set her free. If she truly loves you she will come after you very soon.