What is the recipe for a happy marriage? Remember that the most effective advice that works are those that are simple.
They are simple and easy.
All you need is to form habits out of these.
Do not get into each others way.
Some people seem to do this on purpose.
Knowingly or not, they have cultivated a habit of watching each other, in a non positive way however.
If you have to train yourself to take notice of your partner, do so for the positive aspects.
And this is not hard either, because everyone has positive aspects.
It is up to you to look for them.
Remember that you choose your partner in the first place, so there must be positive aspects in your partner, or you would not have noticed him then! When you start looking for the positive aspects in one person, you will gradually find that that person starts to warm up to you.
You have to do this sincerely of course, and you will find that it works.
Still, when you are sincere, you actually do not mind whether or not he reciprocates.
In fact, you can get so good at it that you are enjoying yourself.
The reason is because as you look for the positive aspects in another, you start to feel good yourself.
That is just the way it works.
It turns out that you are doing yourself a favor after all.
And then believe it or not, your circumstances start to change for the better, including the way your partner responds to you.
That is right, your partner has been responding to you all along.
So do not put all the blame on him when you do find things not going the way you intend.
You have got more to do with it than you thought! The recipe for happy marriage? Simple ' Look for the positive aspects in your partner.