Is the far fetched idea of winning his love and having him go crazy for you too wild to even seriously consider? Are more grounded than that, so you just sit in your apartment alone week after week knowing it's just not worth making an effort? Have you been down the path to love so many times before, you just want to take a detour and head straight to lonely and single? Don't be so down on yourself.
There's really no reason for you to be alone and single if that's not what you want.
You just have to know how to put yourself out there so that men will pay attention and will then want to become seriously involved with you.
If you've spent most of your dating years chasing after men and catching them with your promise of easy sex, then you've probably noticed that when it comes to getting a man to take you seriously it doesn't really work out very well.
Don't you trust that you have so much more to offer a man than just your body? Are you afraid that if your body's not part of the deal, he'll walk? That's ridiculous.
Sure the guy who just wants sex is going to walk, but the guy who is looking for a real deal is going to want to stick around to get to know you better.
You've probably heard it millions of times, be it really is your personality that is going to win this guy over.
I mean, how many times have you seen a guy dump a gorgeous woman saying that she was too high maintenance, or arrogant, or pretentious or just plain unpleasant to be around? Don't let yourself fall into that group of women.
Be fun when you're out on a date and let the guy know the real woman underneath the hair and make up.
Then, just to keep it interesting, take a tiny step back and remain just elusive enough to intrigue him and get him to question more about you.
Be a bit unavailable when he calls for a date, or make him wait it out until he can see you again.
Give him enough information about yourself to draw him closer, but keep a lot of information for later on.
He doesn't have to know everything about you right off the bat.
You'll see how quickly the chase will be on.