A part of you knew that this day might be coming, but who really suspects that their wife is going to actually want a divorce? If you are stuck in this kind of a predicament, and you feel like you just want to get her back, it can be a trying time for you. When some guys get in this position, they just kind of give up and assume that nothing they can do will work to change her mind. While that is the way that some situations play out, that does not have to be the way that yours does.

Here are 3 tips to help you get your wife back even if she wants a divorce:

1. Take some time to really think over what YOU want in this situation.

You don't want to take this lightly, especially if you are determined to get your wife back. Still, taking just a little bit of time to sit back and really think about what you really want to have happen in this situation is never a bad idea. Plus, you want to be sure that you don't rush into trying to get her back and go about it in the wrong way from the very start, which is easy to do.

2. Do not try to smother her with attention, thinking that this will make the situation work out in your favor.

Giving her too much attention in a time like this can be a bad thing, especially when it comes across as you kind of crowding her and making her feel uncomfortable. Of course, you don't want to go to the other extreme and ignore her either. Just be aware that too much attention can be just as bad as too little.

3. Learn how to make her feel like she is falling in love with you all over again.

One thing that will always be true is that a woman is a lot more inclined to want to stick out the marriage and work things out when she feels like she is still in love with you. Concentrating on making her feel that way again is a much better method than trying to use any other way of persuading her to come back to you and forget about the divorce. It's not 100 percent full proof, because well, nothing is, but you will have a better chance of winning back your wife if she feels that love coming back again.