Some men have no idea on how to attract ladies. They appear to be tough when they are with their peers but when it comes to women they are a shy ass. This is a very pitiful condition for any man, especially when men are supposed to be considered as forceful beings and they have their way to get the things they want.

Majority of the guys who are in this sad plight think that women in general are only attracted to guys who have wealth, appearance, and popularity. I tell you now that this is an ERRONEOUS belief. It is not all about superficial things. Yes, there are many women who are easily attracted to men who have those advantages and there are many relationships now that are only based on convenience but many women still look for a lasting and genuine relationship.

There are men who journey their lives deprived of the ability to pick up a woman, or have a connection with the gal they are interested with. What they have are purely imaginations and fascinations that they are in a relationship with a hot gal or the woman of their dreams. Again, this can be a very side plight for any man but there is a way to cure it.

In order to understand women, you must know what interests her.

Every guy must know that women, in general, are attracted to alpha males. Alpha males are men who have the characteristics of a true leader. Somebody who can lead a team, group or circle, a guy who can think, decides and provide for the group. Even if the times have changed, there are still moments when women want a guy who they can depend on when the need arises.

Value the word Respect. This is very necessary in winning over women. Both self-respect and respect for others are very important to women. Self-respect means grooming yourself and feeding your mind, heart and spirit with healthy wisdom. Treat people the way you want to be treated. That doesnt only apply to men but women as well.

Being wretched is a slump. If you are in the process of restoring yourself and gaining back your confidence, only do appropriate things. While you may want to look and smell good in front of a girl this doesnt mean you pour yourself with scented perfumes or shampoo yourself with hair gel. Make yourself appear you are a person who knows how to maneuver your life wheel. Women idolize guys who know how to control their life.

Your facial expressions and speech tones play an important role in attracting a gal. Invite her for a walk in the park, a visit in a gallery or invite her to watch a kids football game. Make her feel comfortable in your presence and enjoy your time together. There is so much to do when you are with the girl of your interests and remember your goal is to get her attention. So make most of your time with her. NOTE: Make her feel that she is special to you.

Always put a smile on your face in her presence, it makes any woman feel that her presence is wanted and that you adore her. A cheerful smile tells a woman that you enjoy her company and you are ready to do delightful things with her. Smile changes your appearance; it means that you are cordial, and that shes godly. Never, never put on an artificial smile, women can easily detect it.

Lastly, dont assume that her responses to your engagements mean that shes yours already. Go out with her, play with her, be sweet to her, but dont expect. Having an expectation affects your character and behavior towards her. Youll inevitably do or utter awkward things to her. Keep these advices in your mind, and youll enthrall ladies like a pro.