You might be wondering how to heal your broken hear after husband is caught cheating. It probably seems impossible at the moment but women do pull through this more often than makes the headlines. In fact, it will probably be much easier for you because the world isn't watching to see how you react and what you do to pull yourself through.

But, what can you do? There aren't too many "how to" guides for pulling through a betrayal of this scope. It can be done though. How well you work your way through it though is entirely up to you.

So, what can you do to heal your broken heart?

1)Put yourself first for a change. While you might want to make changes to work things out with your husband this is the time when you need to pamper yourself for a little bit. It might take a little getting used to but you are both likely to be a little happier if you learn to put yourself first every once in a while.

2)Take your time. There's no need to rush the healing process. If you rush through without going through the various stages of healing you might find that you're really not ready for what comes next. It is much better to give yourself enough time not only to come to terms with his cheating but also to deal with how much it hurts and what you really feel is best to do next.

3)Retake control of your life. Now is the time to start making decisions. Whether you decide to stand by your husband or leave him behind you it's good for you to make that decision. Empowerment is one way that will help you get over your husband's cheating and the emotional fallout it leaves behind. Many women are stunned to discover what a difference being the one to make things happen instead of the person things happen to can make.

4)Put it back together again. It's going to take lots of love, a few rolls of forgiveness, and many beautiful bits of super string to put it all back together again but picking up the pieces of your broken heart and putting them back together again is one of the best ways to heal. The fastest way to accomplish this though is to do whatever it takes to make things right between your husband and yourself.

Has your husband already left you behind or did you dump him when you found out only to discover that now you want him back? You can get your husband back and I can help.