I always tell my friends and the people around me that it takes very few days to stop loving someone. Although the majority of them tried it and it worked out well, the minority usually doubt me based on their own past experiences probably how they managed to take months or year to get over their loved ones and came out with their own definition.
Forgetting someone is completely free and easy if you appear to follow just the right theory and that's why people who easily forget or get over their loved ones immediately after breakup are not those who based on their emotions but those who manage to apply the principles of recovery.
Why do some people never get over someone they like?
A research was carried out after which it proved that people who hardly or never forget their loved ones are those who never accept the occurrence of the breakup and this highly prevents recovery due to the fact that they are left with hopes of seeing their lover thereby keeping every possible thoughts and belongings about the person and in return, they make the recovery process longer than usual.
If you try to investigate some of my friends and the people I mentioned above, you will discover that these are some of the mistakes they did which shifted their forgetting process.
Another great factor which prevent people from forgetting their loved ones after breakup is the belief of hoping to ever be together again. Do you know that even 1% hope can still hinder recovery? In one of my articles 'How to forget someone you love', I say that recovering after breakups can only take place when there is absolutely no hope of ever being together only then can you recover and this is one of the wrong steps some people still adapt till this day.
How to forget someone you like
As I said before, forgetting someone you like is complete easy and simple if you do the right thing and this is nothing more than understanding just few things about the theory of love which I am going to explain to you in this article.
In order to forget someone you like, you must first of all accept the fact that there is nothing existing as the one or soul mate. There is no such thing as the one or soul mate, else you would not have broken up with him. The break up simply means he or she was not the rightful match for you and if you discover that, there'll be no need persuading such a person. That would just be as creation more troubles for yourself. Who likes troubles?
As humans, we tend to fall in love with those who match a certain percentage of our love criteria and if someone matches them more than the previous person, automatically he or she becomes your best match. This therefore means that if you break up with someone, you will equally get another one in same way you got the first, right? And this time, you can get but a potential partner for yourself.
He or she was not the most handsome or beautiful person
Another way which can make you easily forget about them is to understand that they were not the most handsome of beautiful person which can make you go crazy because of that.
They are not, else everyone would have been running after them for relationship or they would have won Miss Beauty of the country but if they have not, then, it simply means they are not the best choices, right?
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