Are you having difficulty navigating through the dating world? Have you dated someone you thought was Mr. Right only to have him slip away? You thought the date was great and that everything went out well. The guy even told you that he had a wonderful time and would call you. But guess what? He never did. You may be wondering what you did wrong and how to attract men.

Well, you should have a better understanding about the thrill of the chase first. Men, on a physiological level, are like greyhounds at dog races. They chase the rabbit because it's in their nature. In the male world, women are the rabbit.

Smothering, chasing a guy and appearing desperate are possibly the worst things that you can do. Furthermore, this would take away the challenge. Remember, guys love the thrill of the chase. So, what you can do is flirt or tease him, but do it discreetly. Never, under any circumstances, come on too strong.

An effective technique when flirting is using body language. You can touch the guy's shoulder or hand during conversation. Also, you can lean forward so that he can smell you. When he's talking to you, listen intently and make eye contact at all times. Smile, do the hair play and bite the bottom of your lip. Just make sure that you're not being obvious or exaggerating; keep it as natural as possible.

Another technique to attract men is by being mysterious. Whenever you're on a date, don't spill out everything about you. Not only will you bore your date, but you will also annoy him. Moreover, you would be taking away the anticipation and thrill. Instead, just disclose as little information as possible to capture his attention and interest.

Just like when going to a job interview, you need to dress to impress. The same concept applies during a date. Wear an outfit that would make you feel sexy. Keep in mind that the word here is "feel", not "look". Dress in clothes that would emphasize your figure and let his imagination run wild. You may also consider wearing something in red. Based on studies, seeing red can boost the heart rate of a person. So, take advantage of this color.

Lastly, always look your best. This is pretty obvious; however, a lot of women take this lightly. You see, by taking care of your appearance, you will have an edge over those who don't. Shower using perfumed or aromatic bath products. Whiten your teeth and keep fresh mints in your purse. Use a good scented feminine deodorant. Keep your makeup looking natural. Take pride in your appearance. This is how to attract men easily and effortlessly.