Attracting girls is both a science and an art.
It is a science in that it requires you to put a lot of study and thought into how girls think and behave.
It is an art in that you will have to modify your behavior so that you are attractive to them.
Most men will admit that the behavior of women and girls is a complete mystery to them and blame this mystery on the fact that a woman's emotional and physiological makeup is different from that of men.
This is not true, men and women think in quite similar ways.
The real difference is that men act on this assumption about the differences and over think the situation so that their efforts to attract girls fail.
The initial reactions of men and women are quite similar, imagine if you, a handsome man were in a bar or lounge and found that a particular woman stared at you all the time throughout the evening.
Now also imagine that this woman was really ordinary or even that you found her unattractive, not your type.
Now reverse the situation, this is what is usually happening to women and girls and the more attractive they are the more frequently it happens.
Because of the frequency of the attention they receive, they are often guarded and you need to seduce their attention.
Women and girls respond to words more than men do, and tend to dissect what is said to them more than the lesser gender! The technique you need to use to attract a girl to you is to pay attention to what she says, take care with your language and your body language and pay her careful and thoughtful compliments.
A word of warning, most men either use too many compliments and appear insincere, or too few or none at all which is taken as a sign of lack of interest.
Compliment her outfit, her hair and her voice, she has after all made an effort to look and sound attractive! In turn, try to keep your voice low and your approach soft, it is not only what you say but how you say it that matters when trying to attract girls.
If she responds by leaning towards you know she is interested in what you are saying.
If she touches your arm or makes any sort of physical contact you know you are on the right track.
If you want to attract girls then the power of words is one of the most important things you need to have at your disposal.