Would you like to learn the three secrets to dating more? You can have guys BEGGING to meet you and date you.
Here are the hidden truths that can lead to dating miracles: 1.
Listen carefully to what YOU say.
Take a step back and look at the places in your life that are not working.
Then pay attention to what you say about those areas.
For instance, phrases like, "I'm not good at relationships," or, "I'll never find anyone I really want to be with," will only convince you that you won't ever find who and what you want.
Without understanding it, when you speak negatively, you literally speak your problem into reality.
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Handle your own personal dating situation.
Do you know how to be a winner? You have to find your determination.
If you sit around moping about how there is no one to date; if you talk about how there's no one out there; and if you don't DO anything to meet people, nothing is going to happen.
Successful people take ACTION when they want to solve a problem.
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Handle the parts of your life that are not working: *Clean up your personal environment.
You will become more enthusiastic when you feel the sense of power and control this gives you.
It is possible to feel like a victim if you get so disorganized you can't find your papers, or something clean to wear, or the keys to your own house.
This clean up is within your power and you can do it.
*Clean up your work and career.
In order to make more money or advance in your current position, ask yourself: Are you missing some level of training? Do you need to finish college? Do you need a computer course, an accounting course, or preparation and study for an advanced degree? Sit down and analyze your particular situation, find a mentor, a gifted teacher, or a wise person you trust.
Ask them for guidance.
But do what you have to do to get your career on track.
This will give you confidence.
Confidence is very appealing.
*Clean up past relationships.
Anything left untidy or unsaid in the past with a former partner may need your attention before you are ready to meet someone else.
Apologize for what didn't work, acknowledge the things that did, and thank them for the relationship.
Then let go and say goodbye.
If you don't clean this up, it will follow you into new relationships and everywhere else you go.
*Clear up your finances.
They have to be handled before you are in a serious relationship-or, you won't be able to take care of each other.
It is not a good idea to carry your financial distress or baggage into dating.
It causes you to feel insecure, distracted, and worried.
No one can save you in this area but you! Having your finances handled is sexy.
*Tend to your health.
You may know what you need to do, including working out, but you also may keep running from it.
Change your words and thoughts to, "I love to work out! It's so good for me and I can meet new people at the gym.
" So there it is.
The most important list of hidden secrets that will jumpstart your life into the dating world.
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Good luck, and know that can do it-because now, you have the secrets.