The most of us were programmed to be victims of circumstances.
From our early childhood we learned that our happiness, health and wealth are dependent on someone or something else.
On both political and financial situations in the country or across the world.
We blame our parents that they didn't give us enough knowledge or money to be wealthy.
We blame our wives and husbands in not giving us enough love, care and attention.
We blame the political and economy in our country or in the world in our bad financial condition.
We blame our bosses for our low wages and about bad terms at work.
And list goes on...
To stop feeling like a victim and to stop living like a victim, you should make a big switch in your head: The only person who is responsible for what is going on with you right now- is YOU! Now you have the choice: 1.
To continue to look for someone or something to blame for all your troubles and difficulties.
2.
To realize that all responsibility is on you, that you are an effective creator of your reality, and start to change it.
I will not be surprised if you will choose the first option.
Many people do.
It's easier; it's something you're regularly to do.
It puts you in the position of being passive and drawn.
But then don't be surprised that the same problems and difficulties continue to accompany you in your life.
Because if you really want to change, you have to realize that it's you, who continues creating the same reality day after day.
And when you realize this, you will also realize that YOU are the only person who can change it.
There are people that have different experiences in the same situations.
No matter what happens around you, everyone is creating his/her personal reality.
Everything that has happened to you until this very moment is not relevant.
You don't have to continue the sequence of the past.
This moment you are connected to unlimited potential.
All the possibilities are open in front of you right now.
All you should do - is to choose.