Some singles take their date for granted and wonders why he pulls away.
They don't prepare for the date and they treat him as if he was on a job interview.
They like him but want to be in total control and most men don't like this so they end the date quickly.
Women who act this way are a pain to be around and are not usually a pleasant person.
Some have been in a bad relationship where they were controlled when someone else ruled their life making it difficult to live.
There are 4 things you must not do to keep your date from pulling away.
1 - Past lovers and Exes - You should never talk about your past love life or put down your exes'.
This makes your date feel insecure and wonders if you're trying to use him as a replacement.
They believe you're still hung up on your ex and they don't want to compete.
Some guys have a jealous streak and talking about your exes' will cause him to bail on you.
It makes him feel uneasy so keep your past loves to yourself so your date will enjoy being with you without a reason to leave.
2 - Not a job interview - Most women aren't aware they're drilling their date.
They're nervous as it is and are trying to make conversation.
Don't ask questions that makes him feel like he's on a job interview.
Questions about his job such as; what type of work do you do, where do you work, how much do you make and all other questions that are job related should not be a part of your conversation.
Make a list of important questions you want to ask so you can learn more about your date, just don't interrogate him.
3 - Ultimatums - Some women give their date ultimatums or are too over - bearing.
They insist on paying their way or will leave, they try to control the conversation and insist on straight answers, they want to be in control of where to go on the date and when to leave.
Let the guy make the decisions.
Men have pride and want to show you a good time in their own way.
Men do not like ultimatums or controlling women.
If you do this, your date will dump you in a heartbeat.
4 - Your actions - There are some flirty women and they don't care who they are flirting in front of.
Sometimes they're not aware of what they're doing because it's become such a bad habit, but it is very rude.
They really like their date, but for some reason they believe showing off in this fashion, impresses their date, but it's totally opposite.
Don't wear real short skirts, shorts, or midriff blouses.
It's a sure sign you want men to notice you.
Don't stare at other guys while you're with your date or you'll blow it for sure.
You must dress and act like the girl next door.
These are the 4 reasons why your date pulls away so the best policy is to be yourself and act like a lady.
Although some gals don't realize they're doing anything wrong, it looks really bad and makes her look trashy.
Try to prepare for your date because he may be your perfect match, and it could turn into a great relationship.