So, so, so true for the simple fact that if a girl who's had daddy issues ever since she was younger and she grows up into that woman then most likely whatever she's missed out with her father, she will have complications in all of her relationships meaning; trust issues with any man she gets in a relationship with. But can these trust issues really ever stop her from ever getting married?
Absolutely yes, cause of the simple fact that this situation is more like a 9-5 position that's harder than an average gig itself which just might be a hard pill to even swallow just for the simple fact that she'll be looking for answers all over the place and will also be looking for it elsewhere in all the wrong places. So therefore, if she happens to fall in love with someone and he starts to fall in love with her as well and he confesses his true love to her and he ends up being the right guy for her, then 9 out of 10 times she won't think that he's telling the truth whenever he confesses his love to her or believe a word that he says when he says he's going to be in a certain place and start to show her that he's willing to be there for her and not cheat on her, she'll have trust issues because she'll always have it in the back of her mind that he won't stick around or he's using her for whatever just because of all the disappointments she's used to getting and the abandonment that she had to deal with her father and every other man who's ever disappointed her or abandoned her cause she's already broken. So if her man by chance says "Oh baby I love you", she will want him to prove it 100% no matter how many times he might say "trust me baby", I love you and won't let you down cause you're the one for me. It's going to be hard for her and she'll be insecure to a point and get so jealous whenever there's another woman in the same room as her man. Then he will say that she's crazy and she needs serious major help.
Whenever a woman have been abandoned by her father, she'll grow up hating every man and thinking that they're all the same so she'll start to model that same behavior and start acting like the man without a care in the world and it will be so hard for her to move on with her life. Yeah sure, she might be the one that's well educated and the one to become very successful at whatever she's done in her life as far as career wise, but she will never be successful at love and she'll be the woman who is always the single one and the dateless one at a wedding and she'll forever be a bridesmaid, but never a bride.
But on that subject itself, you have to ask is this woman scorned and why is she so scorned? But is it that particular scenario that's got her confused about it all and not making up her mind whereas she's very scared and is a scary situation for her that she can't handle alot of things. So with that being said, she's the type of woman who blames her man for everything and becomes really needy to a point that she'll drive her man away to another woman and still she'll have it in the back of her mind that all men are the same when she really drew him away cause of her insecurities.
But is it really a sickness and phase that she might go through? Well you can say yes for the simple fact that when father abandoned her, she grew up thinking that there is no particular man that's out there for her who is really the one and who's going to treat her like a princess cause remember; a little girls first love is her father and if she doesn't have that then, she'll forever be clueless about love and what it's really supposed to be and feel like. So therefore, if by chance her father was never in her life then she'll grow up hating him and resenting him and that leaves him to be labeled as one of the # of long line of men that she hates because he was never there to show her what's up so she'll be looking for love in all the wrong places and whatever she finds, will guarantee to be that dangerous love that won't be good for her so she'll settle for less.
Know this: Most women who's been abandoned by their father's happen to become promiscuous and 9 out of 10 times they take a very long time to decide if they're going to conceive or not or ever get married for the simple fact that her dreams of ever walking down that aisle has been shattered and she will forever have it in the back of her mind that it will never happen for her because there's was always something that was missing in her life which was closure and a fear of abandonment.
So therefore, when it comes to a situation like that; she will never move on until she gets the proper closure that she needs because that can take a lifetime of fixing and closing because it can also be one chapter in her life that she'll never be able to close.
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