Be Very Conscious Of What You Focus On.
This means your thoughts, your energy, your attention.
What you focus on, tends to bring you more of it! So if you focus on what you don't have -you'll end up with more of it.
For instance, if you think of your debt all the time - you'll end up with more debt.
If you keep going over and over in your mind how your partner annoys you - they'll end up annoying you more.
If you keep asking yourself why you are so unlucky - you guessed it!!! - you'll attract more bad luck!!! If you're getting more of what you don't want in your life, the chances are that it will lower your vibrational level.
It's not so much what is actually happening -as YOUR THOUGHTS AND THE STORY YOU TELL YOURSELF ABOUT IT.
There are plenty of people who are not in relationships who are very happy.
There are many people who do not have much money who are very happy.
What makes you unhappy is the meaning you give to whatever is happening, and what you are telling yourself it means.
For instance, if you are not in a relationship and are telling yourself that this is because no-one could ever love you, you're hopeless with men/women - you'll find it very hard to feel good about it.
However, if you're focussing on the positive things - e.
g.
you get to watch what you want to on TV, the house is much cleaner with just you in it etc - you might feel better, and therefore more likely to attract someone, if that is what you want.
If you feel better in yourself, you will feel your vibrational level rise.
That will help you to think of more possibilities as to how you can change the things that you don't like in your life.
I can almost hear some of you calling out - that's B.
S.
- I want a relationship and I'm not in one, and I'm really unhappy about that, and I can't pretend not to be.
I'm not saying to pretend anything - if you really want a great relationship with someone, go for it.
Focus on what a great relationship you are attracting.
Get clear yourself on what a great relationship means to you.
Take care of anything in your life that might be in the way of you attracting your perfect partner and make all the preparations you need to for the arrival of your partner.
The same is true for money or anything else you want to attract into your life.
Make sure that you are focussing on all the positive things and that you are preparing yourself to receive what you are looking to attract.
ACTION STEP Write down something that you would like to attract into your life.
Where in your life do you have that in some way already? Can you increase your focus on this.
Are there any persistent negative thoughts about this area of your life that you could change? When you think of your relationship with money/ partners / career etc what story do you tell yourself? If someone else was looking at your life - could they give another interpretation of things? DECIDE - to change your focus to the things that raise your vibrational level.