Breaking up to someone is never an easy thing to do. This is especially true if you're the one who did not want relationship to end. Somewhere, something went wrong in a relationship to and neither of us to blame. This can make it very frustrating if you want to get the ax back and you're not sure what to do. So this is how do you get your girlfriend back for good? Below are some great tips that you can follow to help to win her heart again.
1. Learn to be the bigger person in a relationship. Let's face it no one wants to be wrong when it comes to issues or arguments in a relationship. If you are one of those people that never likes to be wrong, this could be one of the reasons that the two of you are not together any longer. If you learn to take the higher road then chances are you may be able to win back the heart of your girlfriend.
2. Show her that you care. Often times, men get comfortable in the relationship and they start to slack off on going the extra mile to show the girl just how much she means. Try getting her something that she has mentioned she likes. She will be thrilled that you remembered that she mentioned it and even more thrilled that you went out of you way to get it for her.
3. Show her a different side of you. By this point, you know exactly what you have done to contribute to the relationship fail so you know what you need to do different to make things work. Once you commit to changing your ways, you will need to show her that you have changed and that you deserve a second chance. You may need to get the help of friends and/or family to help you get your foot in the door. Chances are you will get to have one last chance to have your say so. You want to be sure that you make that one shot count.
4. While flowers may be a clich, it is still a great way to gain some points. You just have to know how to deliver the flowers. One sure fire way is to deliver the flowers yourself and deliver them to her work. You might want to add in something like "I was a fool and I am wrong, please give me one more chance". Her co-workers will most likely be on your side and cheer you on.
Breaking up doesn't have to mean that it is over for good. You just need to know when to step in to get a second chance. You have to remember not to push her and let things take their course. Learn to swallow your pride sometimes and let her be the one who is right. Always remember that you do not have to win each and every battle.
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