Knowing each other Xiangxi friends, should be on your soul with hoops of steel.
Polonius, "Hamlet," Act One third
In ancient Jews there has been circulating a story about a friend:
A father told his son deathbed, "In addition to the wealth of life saved, I left you a lifetime only a friend, he lived in a very distant place, which is his address If you case to the difficulties can not be resolved, it would look for him. "Then the father put in the hands of an unfamiliar address written note handed the hands of his son, then on Sashourenhuan.
Son lost his father felt overcome with grief, the grief he is the father dying left, then puzzled, "I have no less than one hundred good friends, why my father wanted me to go to when in difficulties only a friend of his for many years, is no longer associated? mention he also live so far away. "Although the father was not very understanding, but always dutiful father left to a piece of paper to save to a safe place.
Son continue to entertain his friends in Meeting under their father died a few years, when the friends encounter difficulties, he always generously. Due to excessive spending and no other credited as the father left the money soon gone. Greeted friends have become indifferent extremely when almost nothing to those who help his friends for help, I did not expect.
Disheartened, he thought the note left in his father dying, he simply packed up and began searching for the father who long lost friends.
Experienced ups and downs, he finally came to the front of his father's old friend. An old friend of his father's apparently the family was not wealthy, to see that he even wants to back down. When his misgivings to identify themselves to each other and that their current difficulties, he saw the old man soon came out, and then hold back from the outside looks old jar, while removed from the jar dozen ducats to the side to tell young people, "This profit is shared when I was young, and your father do business together, and you all take it, and use them to create more wealth."
The young man with ten pieces of gold go, the him away true friendship Taichetaiwu.
Real friends more often than not you proud around Qianhuhouyong, not your scenery Masamori when people bring flowers to congratulate you. A true friend is to lend a helping hand to you in your difficult people in your lonely abjection when you sent me a paper memo. Although the people in his life in Meeting the diverse and numerous partners, but can really be called a friend but not a few.
True friendship is solid, it can stand the test of time validation and environmental, Hamlet and Laertes, friendship has not been able to withstand the evil King Claudius sabotage, Horatio and Laertes is very different, even in the most painful time of Hamlet, he supported Hamlet, touching and sincere friendship between them is very moved and yearning.
True friendship is worth a lifetime pursuit and cherish, communication facilities so developed modern society, it is actually much easier with friends, as long as the regular write letters to each other, play call, send some E-Mail , or personally take the time to visit each other and their families, even as long as a tacit eyes and a simple greeting, we share happiness sharing and grief. When we need help the most, they will lend a helping hand in their desire for friendship, we will offer its own support. Finally, do remember that true friendship is - do not hurt others. Would rather pull a release of a horse, and they should not do things perfidy Wang Yi.
When a great friend when we can not become like Shakespeare is so great playwright, poet, but also be able to try it, do not you?
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